Thursday, October 17, 2013

Serial obsessive

Jennifer and I recently visited our friend Valerie in Charleston, SC.  When we were there Val pointed out something to me that I knew about myself, but she really gave me a good-natured hard time about it.  It caused me to think some more about it and definite, so here goes...

I'm a serial obsessive.

Here's what this looks like for me.  I find someone or something that interests me and I devour all the information I can possibly find until I tire of it.  Then I move on.  Usually I incorporate some part of that obsession into my core identity, but not always.

I have reason to believe this is genetic, but I won't tell you which of my parents is to blame :)

The cycle lasts anywhere from a few hours to a few years.  

Here's a non-comprehensive list of things I've obsessed over (as well as when the obsession started and waned), most of these things I still enjoy, but I have moved on from obsessing...

  • Basketball (Middle School and early high school)
  • Learning Piano (Middle School and High School)
  • Frank Sinatra (High School)
  • Choral Music and music education (High school and Early college)
  • Colts Football (College and early adulthood)
  • Audio production (2005-2008)
  • Liverpool Football Club (2007-2008)
  • Atheism (2007-2009)
  • Objectivism (2008)
  • Science, specifically evolutionary studies as well as origins of human life (2007-2008)
  • Food, specifically the industrial food complex (2009)
  • Scooters (2009 - until I saw that motorcyclist wreck right in front of me)
  • Golf (2010 - present)
  • Minimalism (2011-present)
  • Debt elimination and money management (2005-present)
  • Organization (2012 - present)
  • Woodworking (2013 - present) though I've always enjoyed watching programs like New Yankee Workshop, etc.
  • Philosophy and Psychology (2013 - Present)
  • Online journaling (2013 - Present)


I'd like to think I've absorbed the best of these things and left the obsession behind.  Also, realizing that I do this has helped me in some ways to break the cycle.  I find that I'm more likely now to spend more time learning and I'm less likely to spend money on things that I will eventually drop.  Progress!!!

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